Quite often, there are men who request this, and have zero intentions of ever actually showing up. They request these meet to just waste our time. Others do it, never "show up", but are actually in the vicinity, unbeknownst to us. They then proceed to follow us home, so they can either now stalk, or carry out other nefarious activities. Screening you in advance, allows us to determine if we feel safe to meet you at all, whether in public or private setting. In addition, many do not offer to pay for these meetings. When in reality, these type of meetings take just as much planning, preparation, daycare arrnagnemnts, etc, as a regular appointment would. While some providers DO allow this types of meetings, in lieu of screening, I do not, and will not, ever offer these.
F.A.Q.
Screening someone with their real world information, allows me to see whether they have a history of any activities I may find unsafe to have my self around (criminal record, domestic incidences, reports of robbing/harm/etc to other providers. IF anything were to happen to me (missing, kidnapped, murdered, harmed etc), having the full name of the last person I was with, will assist myself or police; while only having someone's first name or username on a board, provides me with no security at all. While many allow a reference only system, I no longer accept references as only means of screening. Unfortunately, I cannot put my safety in the hands of another, especially since many men, will be on their best behavior for their most used references, but act completely differently with new ladies. The term YMMV, also applies to us. There are also many providers who do not participate in this system, and hundreds upon hundreds, who I have no idea of who they are, so I cannot fully trust that system. I DO provide references though upon request!
I do not live at my Incall. I obtain a hotel room for all incall requests, and hotels do not allow check-in prior to 2:30pm.
Again, I do not live at my incall, therefore, I must obtain and pay $110-140 for a hotel room. Also, because of my limited hours of availability, I am obtaining that hotel room specifically for your appointment only. You are always welcome to obtain a hotel room yourself (just check on etiquette page to see those I do not come to), and then outcall rate would apply to you!
Because of my limited availability, I only schedule a limited number of appointments a week. I have to take off from work and schedule daycare/sitter, to make those arrangements. When one cancels, I am not able to last minute reschedule someone else, and am out the cost of the room (if incall), and sitter/daycare.
I have been around since 2005. I have reviews on multiple sites, dating back to 2005. I have an extensive social media presence (Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok), that are updated every few days, with new pictures. None of my pictures, whether selfies, quick pics shot with my tripod, or the nicer photo shoots, are edited. What you see, is what you get. In fact, the majority of people who meet me, the first thing they say is how I DO look just like my pictures and am better in person (I think it is the in-person smile and personality that make me more attractive in person ;)
A wide array of my dates, are with those I have known for years, or with those who are seeing me because their need for discretion is so high. They feel no need to review our encounters. I have been reviewed enough in the past, for you to be assured of my legitimacy and that you will enjoy your experience with me!
I have been around WAY too long, to have anyone question whether I am real or my pictures are really me. I have built my reputation up to it's level, by years of providing legitimate, top-of-the-line companionship. If you have done the proper amount of research into looking for a companion, you will have seen that I have been verified repeatedly on many sites. You asking for a picture to verify or a video chat, only shows me you have not done any research on me, and we are probably not a good fit.
Every ad site you have seen me on? I had to send in a picture of my DL/ID, a photo holding up a sign with the date, my name, and sign several release forms. I have been verified already. The sites where it states I have been verified, I have also been photo verified, as well as age verified. My ad on several legitimate sites, goes to show I have been verified and am safe to see (along with my years of no tarnished reputation, and social media presence that again, verifies myself).